Hey There!
I’m Kristin
I have found it to be my mission in life to help women in business identify and overcome limiting beliefs that keep them from achieving their next level of success because they don’t feel like they’re enough.
You work hard. You love hard. You give hard. You do everything with passion and ferocity. Except, you forget one thing. You forget that sometimes you have to work on your own self in order to achieve the greatness you are meant to achieve.
Hey There!
I’m Kristin
I have found it to be my mission in life to help women in business identify and overcome limiting beliefs that keep them from achieving their next level of success because they don’t feel like they’re enough.
You work hard. You love hard. You give hard. You do everything with passion and ferocity. Except, you forget one thing. You forget that sometimes you have to work on your own self in order to achieve the greatness you are meant to achieve.
Life has never been “easy” for me. In fact, some might take a look at my life and want to run the other way. The earlier years of my adult life were certainly not what I’d call picture perfect. Silent film with screaming on the screen is probably more accurate.
Before I started to really work on myself, I went through some pretty difficult times. After enduring a hellaish 2-year relationship with a mentally and physically abusive partner, I decided I had had enough. I left the relationship only to find out that my mindset was gone and every possible negative self-belief I could have about myself crept up and reared its ugly little head.
The darkest hours of my life were far from over. In the midst of the all of the ugliness, I found a shining hope: my (now) husband. Except we weren’t done facing the tough times, but at least we were together this time. We suffered 3 miscarriages back-to-back, which led to me believe that dream was never going to come true. Somehow I blamed it on myself, as most women do, because it was my body. Forget that science has a whole heck of a lot more to do with it than anything I was/was not doing…
Life has never been “easy” for me. In fact, some might take a look at my life and want to run the other way. The earlier years of my adult life were certainly not what I’d call picture perfect. Silent film with screaming on the screen is probably more accurate.
Before I started to really work on myself, I went through some pretty difficult times. After enduring a hellaish 2-year relationship with a mentally and physically abusive partner, I decided I had had enough. I left the relationship only to find out that my mindset was gone and every possible negative self-belief I could have about myself crept up and reared its ugly little head.
The darkest hours of my life were far from over. In the midst of the all of the ugliness, I found a shining hope: my (now) husband. Except we weren’t done facing the tough times, but at least we were together this time. We suffered 3 miscarriages back-to-back, which led to me believe that dream was never going to come true. Somehow I blamed it on myself, as most women do, because it was my body. Forget that science has a whole heck of a lot more to do with it than anything I was/was not doing…
Around the Same Time I Lost My Mother…
Around the same time, I lost my mother to a terminal cancer that took her entirely too quickly. We weren’t ready for her to leave, even though we knew it was coming sooner rather than later. The thought of losing my mom was more than I could handle, and then to actually lose her pushed me right over the edge.
Throughout those dark times, I realized that my own self-talk and inner beliefs had gone to hell in a handbasket (with the prettiest bow, I might add). I could dress up the fact that I was miserable and depressed with the outward appearance that I was okay. The truth was… I was far from okay. I was hurting, alone, and sure that whatever I was was certainly not enough for anyone or anything.
Fast forward a few years to now – my husband and I now have a beautiful baby boy and have been married for 6 years. What felt like two
impossibilities in my life became realities – I fell in love with a man who treats me like a queen and I have a little boy who made his presence known on April Fools Day (he didn’t actually get introduced to the world, just with two little blue lines).
But the thing about all of that is I still had to work on myself. There were days that I worried my soon-to-be son wouldn’t love because I wasn’t a “skinny mom” like all the other moms… or I believed that I didn’t deserve to be loved because for so long I wasn’t.
For days, months, and even years, I worked on my personal development taking classes, reading books, hiring a life coach myself, and attending therapy sessions all so I could redirect the negative thoughts and start realizing how much I truly did have to offer the world.
Sound familiar?
Around the Same Time I Lost My Mother…
Around the same time, I lost my mother to a terminal cancer that took her entirely too quickly. We weren’t ready for her to leave, even though we knew it was coming sooner rather than later. The thought of losing my mom was more than I could handle, and then to actually lose her pushed me right over the edge.
Throughout those dark times, I realized that my own self-talk and inner beliefs had gone to hell in a handbasket (with the prettiest bow, I might add). I could dress up the fact that I was miserable and depressed with the outward appearance that I was okay. The truth was… I was far from okay. I was hurting, alone, and sure that whatever I was was certainly not enough for anyone or anything.
Fast forward a few years to now – my husband and I now have a beautiful baby boy and have been married for 6 years. What felt like two impossibilities in my life became realities – I fell in love with a man who treats me like a queen and I have a little boy who made his presence known on April Fools Day (he didn’t actually get introduced to the world, just with two little blue lines).
But the thing about all of that is I still had to work on myself. There were days that I worried my soon-to-be son wouldn’t love because I wasn’t a “skinny mom” like all the other moms… or I believed that I didn’t deserve to be loved because for so long I wasn’t.
For days, months, and even years, I worked on my personal development taking classes, reading books, hiring a life coach myself, and attending therapy sessions all so I could redirect the negative thoughts and start realizing how much I truly did have to offer the world.
Sound familiar?
IF MY STORY SOUNDS ANYTHING LIKE YOURS,
WE SHOULD GET A DRINK TOGETHER.
All jokes aside (kind of joking… kind of not), if you’ve experienced any of the pain that I have (or more), you’re feeling the desire deep down in your soul to find a solution to the negativity and the hatefulness that spews from your own mouth about yourself.
My mindset shifts haven’t happened overnight, and if someone tells you that you can do that, they’re lying to you! Shifting deeply-rooted beliefs from negative to positive is very difficult and could takes months or even years.
It’s time for you to put down the beliefs of others and start believing in yourself.
Moms, non-moms, business professionals, or work-from-home moms all know that being a mom is tough business. But being a woman is tough, too. Whether you take care of little ones with snotty noses or make dinner every night for your significant other (and then go to sleep at night without being woken up 20 times), you deserve happiness and fulfillment either way!
What are you waiting for?
Let’s do this together!
